Anonymous asked: you seem like a real person. one who is comfortable in your own skin - and if you're not, you seem to be taking steps to do so. you seem to appreciate things that are more than just superficial. i like real people. that's why i want to be friends. as for the unreceptiveness, perhaps its just a false perception - a fabricated mental barrier.
Well, I’m definitely not a fabrication. I appreciate nothing superficial.. except in a facetious, exaggerated manner.. It would help if I knew your name. I’m Erika Tschirhart on Facebook for starters..
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Anonymous asked: i've always wanted to befriend you, but you never seem receptive :/
In what ways do I seem unreceptive? Anyway… if you still feel this way, maybe you should tell me why. Couldn’t hurt could it.
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Anonymous asked: What aspects of being a girlfriend are not included in being a lover or friend?
Being or becoming fickle. Developing contempt. Having wandering eyes. Fear of long-term commitment, restlessness, dissatisfaction.
It’s rather paradoxical, because technically being a lover and a friend embodies that role of being a girlfriend. And if you’re being fickle or having contempt, then you’re not being a very good friend, are you? When I use the word lover I’m trying to connote affection, intimacy, sometimes sexual involvement, etc. There are many different kinds of love. I won’t name all of them but that is my application of the word lover.
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I am a warm, considerate friend. I am a deep, exceptional lover.
But I am a terrible girlfriend.
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